I have a relationship dilema like half the world. Opinion? comments? advice? Cheers.?

Ok... here is the dilema; I'm dating this guy.


The Pros are; He's almost always out to please me, likes the bedroom, has an xbox that we can play together, likes the same music as I do, has a rockin bod, has awesome mates and a really nice family.


Cons; he uses generic phrases, such as ';ok beautiful'; ';love';(in general) ';sexy'; (I detest that word especially in the wrong context), he doesn't really care about me just about the aesthetics of having a girlfriend, I feel asthough when he uses those phrases and words does he feel what is mean to be behind them or is he just saying them because that's what you're surpose to say? He says ';thankyou'; ';Im sorry'; ';I hope you have a great night/day'; A LOT!!! he doesn't wash his hair that often. He constantly has his mind on the bedroom eventhough some of the time it's just because he is trying to please me.. It's just too much. My parents and friends don't think it'll last.





We've been dating for 5 months now... hooray my longest relationship... But have I gotten all that I can out of this relationship? Is this all that itll ever amount to? small talk and uncomfortable awkwardness (not in a good way)?





I keep thinking about other men constantly... for the past month it's been morning and night... I've tried to ride it out, I thought maybe it's a phase? This has happened in a few of my relationships. Maybe I, as a 17 year old, just am not ready for a relationship? maybe I have greater expectations in a relationship in terms of conversation than I should? Is it TOO MUCH TO ASK THAT I CAN HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH HIM THAT DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND THE XBOX, TV SHOWS, METAL OR US? Why can't we talk about the world?





He needs a serious job and stop leeching off his parents ';mum can I have some petrol money'; grrrr. Other than the bad points though he may genuinely care for me just doesn't know how to show it? but then again if you trully care for somebody won't the words/actions/body language just come naturally?I have a relationship dilema like half the world. Opinion? comments? advice? Cheers.?
The relationship has run out sad to say just move on... but before you do tell him what you want...