I NEED ADVICE ASAP!!! PLEASE READ!! PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS PREFERABLY!!!!?

Okay, my boyfriend, childrens; father, fiance, whatever you want to call it was in a very traumatic accident last sunday. He and his cousin were fishing, the boat flipped over, his cousin drowned and he was able to make it to shore. So mind you, he may not be in his right mind.. We have been together for four years. He keeps on bringing up the past when I talked to another guy when he was in jail.. He keeps breaking up with me as well. I just take it as him being a person that can't forgive and not bring up the past. Well anyway..the funeral is tomorrow and he call himself breaking up with me. I don't know whether he is still going through emotional changes or what. On top of this, he recently got insurance money from his fathers death. So I don't know whether the money has gone to his head or what. I really don't understand why he is treating me like this.Oh yeah, everytime he brings up the past, he always comes back. Do you all think the money has him acting funny with me?? Also, the funeral is tomorrow..I did know his cousin..Do you think I should go in support for his family or should I just not go at all since he doesn't want me there?? I know this seems complex but I need advice!!! He doesn't fully trust me so that's why he keeps breaking up with me.. I also would like to know if I should get out of this relationship since he keeps bringing **** up and breaking up with me.. Do you all think this relationship will never work even though he always come back?? Let me knw what's up people!!!!I NEED ADVICE ASAP!!! PLEASE READ!! PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS PREFERABLY!!!!?
I think you should still go to the funeral and pay respect to his family, you dont even need to talk to him there since he ';doesnt want you there';. I think he is just going through some emotional thing because of the death in his family, i dont think the money has anything to do with it. If he keeps on bringing up the past making you feel bad and then breaking up with you though maybe hee is keeping something from you, or maybe because of what happned he just doesnt wanna get hurt again. I think you should just give him time, tell him you love him but its better that you guys dont talk till he gets over this and knows what he wants.. then its up to you if you really want him back or not.. good luck hunI NEED ADVICE ASAP!!! PLEASE READ!! PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS PREFERABLY!!!!?
He could be pushing you way because he feels guilty because he lived and his cousin didn't.
go to the funeral, and just ignore him until he stops bein all moody.