I am in relationship 8 years,i need good advice?

when i was 13 we start relationship ,am 21 now and he more and more talk about marriage.when i was young i falll in love with him,I was just a child.That relationship still works,i care about him,but I dont feel true love like before.I have some other guys exepct him ,I am good looking so i have lots of guys around me.I wanna space and i cant tell him that.I dont know can I even live without him and in the same time i wanna be free.So ,to brake up or married at him.I just dont know what to do.PLEASE HELP!I am in relationship 8 years,i need good advice?
No, don't marry anyone until you love only him and are ready to make a life-long commitment!I am in relationship 8 years,i need good advice?
Please don't get married until you feel you are ready.


Keep in mind, freedom comes with a price.


It is never perfect either way. :)
If you want to be free and you're feeling this way now then one of the worst things you could do would be to get married...it would only end up hurting one or both of you later. My advice is to take some space - indulge your free spirited, single side that you never really got to know (13 is so young!) and have some fun! A bit of distance could change your entire perspective!
Quite honestly, 13 is a little young to start a relationship, but that's really none of my business.





Honestly, I would say you need to go out into the real world and find other guys to date. It's important for your psycological health to date more than one person before you decide on one guy that's right for you. That's my opinion.
How incredibly selfish you sound! Like it is all about poor dear beautiful you. You can't live without him but you want to play the field. He has proposed but now you feel that you need to have something to compare him to.





If you give two figs for him tell him the truth. Tell him that you were both very young when the relationship began and though you are comfortable with the friendship and would miss him awfully if he were not in your life you feel the need to test the waters in other relationships and think he should do the same.





You sincerely risks that he may never speak with you again but you will certainly be free to date a variety of other men.





You need to be aware that even though he has always been around he is not a dog that you can keep on a leash while you make your amorous experiments.





Frankly it sounds like you're a long way from being mature enough to marry anyone regardless of age.
If the feelings not there, it's because the relationship has staled and stalled a bit, probably from being overly familiar all this time together. Yes, because it occurred when you were so young, now there are feelings of ';maybe missing out'; on playing around with other people, and you're still very young for marriage. You better decide now on the possibility of marriage being in the future, and not be one who marries then decide you missed out on the running around, causing a short marriage and nasty young divorce by doing so after it's too late. Think long and hard how much you want to stay with this person and how much your young freedom means to you before you do something rash
if you are ready for life long commitment then go ahead.
lol first, learn proper english. ... then, do what you feel is right.
Let him know how you feel. Dont feel that you are obligated to marry him just because you have been together that long. That is YOUR choice you will have to live with forever. You've never had time to explore and be with other ppl. I think you should try a trial breakup so you both can explore other ppl. If its meant to be, eventually you will be together again. Good luck!
You are going to ask for advice on an 8 year relationship from complete strangers? I feel sorry for your boyfriend!
If you want to be 'free' and have doubts about him. Don't get married, you have to be perfectly satisfied. Don't ask us out here - we don't know about your relationship. I'd say 8 years from 13 was a pretty good relationship but if you're not 101% happy then don't do it. I suggest you talk it through with him though!


Lorna
Okay, you were too young when you fell in love with him. Now you want and feel the need to explore and be free. It's very natural not wanting to be tied down with marriage at the age of 21.


Being with him now is more like a habit than anything, hence you feel a little confused if you can live without him.


Tell him how you feel and see if he can wait a few more years. You didn't mention how old he was. Perhaps you can both be engaged first if he still feels the need to some what tie a bond for the both of you. On the other hand, you could explain the situation and ask him try not see each other for a period of time and see how you really feel about him. Phew...chances are, it'll be quite difficult to make him see your point of view. You can, nevertheless give it a try.


Wish you all the best.