Yes, there is hope for you sweetie. I did not have my first kiss or boyfriend until I was 17 also and I ended up marrying the guy. I was actually one of the most liked girls in school, but I never dated a guy or kissed them or anything. You should actually be proud of yourself. There are girls out there who spread themselves like crazy so be proud for having enough self-respect to wait a while. There's nothing wrong with you, and there is absolutely nothing to be worried about, believe me. You should actually wait to kiss the right guy because when you get older it will be a wonderful and special memory for you.Im 17 never been kissed, had a boyfriend,or a really close boy relationship (dating/bestfriend) help me advice?
Don't narrow down your options to only boys with medium length and and colored eyes
my best friend is kind of like you. She's arab but she's gorgeous and will not date anybody.
I'd say wait until you meet someone who clicks with your personality and take it from there, don't base relationships on looks because then you'll seem picky and no one wants that
You should wait. You are still young, and if you start getting that itch to be with someone you are going to end up regretting it.
Take your time, concentrate on school, and make sure you keep your friends close. Eventually you will meet someone through school, or through your friends.
Don't worry, when the time is right, it will happen. There is somebody out there for everyone!
that is completely fine if you are not ready. some people date when they are yonger, and some people wait, but it ius not abnormal. one day you will find the perfect guy and that god that you waited to find him, because if you had rushed yourself into dating, then maybe you might have found the wrong guy, and married him, and like had 5 children and he drinks and does drugs, and never helps you out with ur kids:)
You should go on a few dates before college just so you know how to interact with boys. If you wait you might be taken advantage of later. Don't overrate dating. Dating is nothing serious. Just hang out with some boys, so you get a hang of what you are looking for. Don't treat all relationships like they will last forever. You will only get hurt that way.
Take your time, there is no rush to get attached to someone...especially at 17. Focus on getting yourself ready for your future. School, college, and career. Love will happen, and it happens best when you don't force it.
When you are ready, don't focus on a particular race or skin color as you may be eliminating your perfect mate on superficial grounds. Your mom may object at first, but they always come around once they realize you are happy.
Don't rush it, if you aren't ready there is nothing wrong with not having one. It really just adds stress to your life, especially at a young age.
When you go to college you will meet all kinds of new people and you may find someone there. Who knows, just let it come to you it's easier that way.
Well Shamira, you shouldn't wait for a prince on a white horse, cause he's never gonna come! So, it's better you to go out and meet people, cause I'm sure that there are a lot of cool guys who would like to know you!
Hugs!
Of course there are guys who go out with girls of color !!
It's not bad that you didn't have boyfriend yet, don't let anybody make you have one !! wait until you find the time is right !
yeah there is not much trouble finding a partner based on race there are still people who dont like the idea of it but most college and highschool aged people are perfectly fine with it so just be yourself and make yourself somewhat available but dont look desperate hahah and have fun with life
idk go for a guy friend and just go up to him and kiss him and say i like you i want you to be mine on valentines day or buy him a lil candy rose and writ your secret admirror
You dont have to date during high school, You know the relationship isn't going to last, and will probley interfere with your college plans.
It shouldn't matter what color you are. What matters is what's in the inside, mostly the heart. You just have to get out there and search for the guy of your dreams.
VIVA LA RAZA!
Don't force/rush it! Everything will come in due time. Every thing happens for a reason. Cliche, I know, but it's true. And you're not alone. i'm 16 and I'm the same way =).
College really does open your eyes.
There are more people who have not started dating until college in college than you think. (I'm from UC Riverside in CA) And there are a lot of people to choose from.
Dont lower your standards... But give dating a shot when yr ready, even if it isn't with the perfect boy. You dont need to get super serious or anything, just get out there and have some fun.
Chill out and relax, doesn't matter what colour you are! And there's no rush to get a bf. Look= Don't find.
Just go with the flow :)
Their is nothing wrong with not being in a relationship at 17.
If you're not ready for it yet you should wait.
you sound exotic, move to a large city guys will be hitting on you everyday
yes wait... I see on this site some very inmature kid on here who are already having sex bf / gf etc.
just wait the good person will just come along.. if u rush things u will only get hurt.
i think your thinking WAY too much about it, go out have fun enjoy life.you'll meet people. relax
ask someone outt. pretend to know more then u do, be mysteriouse.
duuuudes answer mine.
just wait till u get to collage then do what u want to do
just go up to ur bf and kiss him
Let me speak from my experience, You are one of the few smart young ladies out there. All of these teenage girls live their life for the opposite sex. It is best to wait, and most of the time you know who the right one is. Date for a while, don't rush into anything. Don't go by race or culture, you will find someone one day, and waiting is well worth it. This is your life, the only one you get, live it how you feel you should. You don't want to be caught in a relationship or marriage that you find hard to get out of. You seem like a very smart young lady and your mother should be very proud of you!
I feel like I've answered this question a thousand times already but since it keeps coming up I'll answer it again. You shouldn't do ANYTHING! Don't talk to him online if you two are only going to flirt. You have to think about what kind of a friend and person you want to be. Do you want to go behind a friend's back and flirt with her boyfriend? How would you feel if someone did that to you? It's not ok and it's not harmless fun. He's being disrespectful and you shouldn't encourage him. Finally, think ahead. Say you continued to chat online and he dumped his girlfriend for you. Would you trust him not to do the same thing to you? There are other guys out there who wouldn't dream of behaving like this guy. This guy is bad news and so are you if you keep chatting with him.
Do it when your ready, dont rush anything. I think that its good that your waiting and things like that. People are different and do different things. If you try to be like what everyone else says and does then when you get 50 your going to regret it. I wish i would of waited and not done anything. Being older i wish that all the time and look back on my life and say damn that sucks. Wait till your comfortable..Dont let other people tell you when its right. Be strong girl!!You are on the right path
OMG i am exactly the same... Its weird. Well except im Dominican lol... But yea everyones telling me i need to get a bf and i was telling them i want to wait till college.. I think itll be easier once im in college and theyll be WAY MORe mature then hs boys. And to answer ur questions of course theres hope u just have to be patient. You dont want to end up with a jerk do u?? and of course there are ppl who would go out with women of color. Theres nuthing wrong with that. So yea hope i helped.
hiya
1st of all id like to say that no decent person would ever judge you by ur colour. we all are who we are.
it dosent matter if you have never had a boyfriend, actually thats probably the way to be, saves you from alot of heart break oooh i know all too much about that lol
i would wait till you meet someone you truely feel you can be yourself with, dont just settle for anyone cause that never works. there is someone out there for ya, ya just gota find them, or wait for them to find you. it will happen.
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