Who doesn't have relationship problems?? Well I do.. and i need some advice. ?

I have two dudes that i love very much, I went out with both of them, not at the same time.. but yet even i broke up with them bcuz .... well i dont' really know why. it's the same story... Bad Dude %26amp; Good Dude... Im kind of stringin them along, they know about eachother, they hate eachother, but i don't let them know that im confuse and dn't know which one i want. The bad dude is like the bad boy type. he will fight for me, love me, and treat me good. I love talkin to him and everything about him. he treats me great. yea we argue, he gets on my nerve bcuz we're both stubborn and i even hated him at one point but at the end it always bring us closer. the good dude, will do almost anything for me, and let me do what i want. i love him, but sometimes he gets boring, cuz he's too good . I doubt we ever argued. but usually my friends say to get the good guy bcuz bad guys are not what i think they are or something like that. not asking who i should marry, but some advice would be great, even someone that knows what im going through.Who doesn't have relationship problems?? Well I do.. and i need some advice. ?
What little bit that you posted about both guys: Good Dude worships you, denies his own likes/dislikes/needs to let you do ';whatever you want';, and bores you. Good Dude is not really Good Dude, he's a doormat who expects to be paid off in sex for his friendship and sacrifices to let you do whatever you want. You will eventually come to take him for granted and disrespect him and kill what love you have for him.








Bad Dude sounds like he cares for you but he respects you enough to let you be who you are while still respecting himself enough to let you know what his needs are. does he ever try to control you? Does he ever mistreat you? Does he lie to you? If he doesn't do any of those things and the drama that you do have with him isn't over the top or a great portion of your relationship then stick with him---in that case, he's not really ';bad dude';--he's normal well balanced dude and the kind of guy that most woman are looking for.





if however the drama is too much or he is a lying control freak with batterer tendencies then drop him too. What you would need in a partner is someone with both qualities of Bad Dude and Good Dude.


Who doesn't have relationship problems?? Well I do.. and i need some advice. ?
Women are always attracted to the Bad ones, so you're not alone. Don't let the Bad Boy image throw you off. I was the Bad Boy back in the day, but I am the most devoted husband and father today. On the other hand, ';Good guys finish last';. that's a damn shame, Older woman are always asking, ';Where are all the Good Guys';, well maybe they turned into Bad Guys because of how many times they lost out, who knows. All Im saying, is that you can only make yourself happy, don't count on anyone else to do that.


Good Luck on your choice.
Ok, basically, you're not entirely happy with either of these guys, otherwise you wouldn't be doing this. Break it with both, for good, and find some one who suits you better. don't be afraid of being alone, because, frankly, being single is soooo much better.