I would like some advice on why my boyfriend may have ended the relationship?

I was with an awesome man for almost 2 years. We had everything in common. Attraction, love, respect %26amp; compatibility. He owns a house with about 2.5 acres. Together we had been working on it. It needs minor remodeling and a lot of landscaping. Everything we talked about was about ';us';. We picked out house stuff together, made house choices together, everything was about the future. We ate lunch together everyday we could, talked on the phone. Spend the weekends together. I need to note that we live about an hour apart. So we did things to make it work. He never complained. If anything he said he likes things the way they were. He knew when we got involved that I could not move until my daughter graduated from high school in 2 years %26amp; he was ok with that. A week ago he ended it. Saying he wanted to be alone %26amp; he missed that. He is 43 %26amp; never been married or a long-term healthy relationship. Why if everything was so good would he walk away without ever giving me a clueI would like some advice on why my boyfriend may have ended the relationship?
Wow you haven't got any good answers. I doubt tis another woman. Obviously if he is 43 and never been married or had a healthly long term relationship he is afraid of commitment. He is an hour away he still has all his alone time and space he needs but he knows the time is getting closer to when your daughter is going to graduate. By the way you said you have been together for 2 years and when you first got together he knew you could not move until your daughter graduated in 2 years is that 2 years from now 4 years from then or 2 years then right now, now??? because if your daughter is fixing to graduate or just did he could be freaking out he knows you are getting closer to being together full time and he isn't sure if he's good enough for you. He is a man and men worry to he is probably afraid of moving in together and getting hurt like he might have been in the past. You'll never know their could be a million reasons why he broke things off. Since no body on YA knows every little detail of your relationship its him you should be talking to. Wait a couple of days don't crowd him let him wait. Maybe even wait a few weeks if you can hold out that long then give him a call or a visit and make him talk to you. Explain how you have no idea what went wrong and that you miss him and that you want to try to work things out and that you understand he misses being alone but you thought he loved you and was willing to give theat up for you. Just see what his response is. I think since he is 43 and after 2 years ya'll can make up, however, if he truly wants to end it I am sorry for your loss and heartache but at least you will have an explanation if you ask him you know? You don't want to read dumb answers like ';another woman'; and wonder why the rest of your life. Wait it out a little bit then call HIM.


Best of Luck!


I hope he gets his head straight and realizes what he had!


~Sarah~I would like some advice on why my boyfriend may have ended the relationship?
maybe he just felt a little bit overwhelmed with all this house stuff. talk 2 him and ask him? maybe u guys can work it out and try again.
Does his Mom approve of you (they live together, right)...........never in a long term relationship in 43 yrs,.....sorry but time to move on, you can't outdo Mrs Bates
sometimes men and women don't truely feel how they appear to feel.It's possible that one or the other of you two have strong spiritual conviction.If this is the case than that would leave you two unevenly yolked. Cuasing spiritual dicomfort to the other.Unconsciously one or both of you then sabotage the relationship.
He was enjoying your company. Now he was to be alone so be it . Find another good man and move on with your life and be happy.. Hes not for you..Maybe he just a user and you got used......
he is scared of commitment...thats why he's never been married or in a long term healthy relationship. i bet my money he has done this before with someone else. its a pattern why do you think he's 43 and hasn't settled down yet? b/c he's been doing this all his life. getting with women planning a future with them and then just out of of nowhere ending it....he is not marriage material....he is more comfortable playing it cool so thats why he ended it...your best bet is to move forward he isnt worth the pain....you don't want to be with someone who just changes on you all of a sudden for no reason... it doesn't have to be that he's seeing someone else it's just that things got to uncomfortable for him so he bailed out....but on the other hand do yourself a favor and move on b/c this man has already ended the future with you.
u may have suffocated the poor man . 2 much time 2gether . not enough time 2 b 1 person . not 2 people
Probably another woman.
i think the fact that he has never been in a long term healthy relationship might lead to the answer: commitment phobe!!!


he panicked and ended it.


it most certainly was not about you, if things were going as smoothly as you described.
You are better off. But maybe he got cold feet and saw his out and took it.