Advice on a friend's relationship?

So i've known this girl longer then i've known anyone else and still friends with. Last year, she began dating this guy who was such a jerk. He really acted like he didn't care and she was the one to do everything in the relationship. He broke up with her several, several times, even going out with his ex right after breaking up with my friend. In the end he always came crawling back cause she would take him back. Now, ever since he has graduated (and she's a senior now), he is THE most clingy person. He's completely turned around to another extreme. I find it really annoying. Now, it's hard to explain all this but my question is, what will happen in the future? Does this behavior change into abusive, controlling behavior? Should her family and i have anything to worry about? Since she won't listen to us about him.





Also, i know she has to make her own decisions, but i know she'll regret marrying him or anything based on his past behavior, but there is still that underlying thing about him that feels deceiving.Advice on a friend's relationship?
..she is an adult and having a family may fix the problem. If they'll get along really well and you've tried to split them..ohh..it's not a very nice situation to face them again and again..Advice on a friend's relationship?
we cannot say if this relationship will turn out to be abusive. however, you must let your friend it could potentially become a problem in the future. your friend needs to make up her own mind. you can advise her but in the end, she has to make this decision on her own. you might look like you interfering and jealous. try to avoid that
I'll start from the abuse question. From what i've noticed, men who become abusive are generally more than just clingy. They become controlling. Telling their partner that they can't see their friends, jealous of ANY man that they talk to. Eventually the female becomes so controlled that she no longer sees her friends, goes out, socialises in any regard. These are general danger signs of something worse to come. Also, the obvious one would be if he hits her around.





As for being clingy, it may be that he's realised that he screwed up and now he's over compensating. Either way, she has to make the decision in the end and unfortunately alot of women marry men that their friends consider to be pigs.





You have to remember that as a friend, you are in defense mode. Being that close to someone you care about, you don't want them to suffer etc. So, after knowing all that you do, it is TRULY hard to accept that maybe (just maybe) he could be trying to make amends, but maybe with a little much enthusiasm?...





If you interfere, you could lose a mate, and that's the worst part of it all. Been there, done that and my mate didn't want to hear it, but she eventually decided that enough was enough.

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