Could you pls advice regd. getting a girl for relationship!!!!!!!!!?

Hi! Im from asia. Now i came to western world for studies . im a good guy and i respect girls. I want to live in this culture because i believe in this culture. But the problem is , i don know how to get a girl as a girlfriend and find my ultimate soulmate. So i decided to meet girls in the disco. but the problem is whenever i want to talk to a girl, they either think that im only expecting sex and not anymore and they just leave the place... I don know how to? is there any specific steps to convey to them that im jus fine and want to be in normal relationship??? I actually don understand the procedures here i think... help me pls.


Thanks for reading this.Could you pls advice regd. getting a girl for relationship!!!!!!!!!?
awww trust me when the times come you'll find that girl, who will see the true you. Just wait and you'll get one.Could you pls advice regd. getting a girl for relationship!!!!!!!!!?
well ur welcome 4 reading it! u can repay me with a best answer j/p


well i personally think ur not looking at the rite place u should go 2 like church or the mall or somewhere where they wont judge u realx u will find the rite gurl soon!
Most girls think you only expect sex because, generally in America that's the only thing most males want (I'm not saying all do, but most do). So when you start talking to a girl as a place like a club or bar - they think that because that's what most guys in those places want. So here's my advice to meeting a girl who won't think that. If you want a serious relatioinship, go to a place like a library or the park, or a community help center. The girls there will generally be smart and kind and caring. But if you meet a girl you like, don't just expect to get in a relationship. First you need to get to know her, and become good friends with her. When you feel the time is right, ask her out - like to a fun/romantic place (not just the movies or to dinner, that's so typical here and boring). Ask her to have lunch as a picnic in a park or something fun like that. Eventually you'll go to dinner and stuff like that. But don't expect anything physical like sex for a while, if you're in the relationship get to know eachother more thoroughly - eventually that stuff will happen. But you need to be aware of Sexually Transmitted Diseases before you do, make sure she doesn't have any, let her know you don't if you don't, take all the safety precautions - STD's are pretty big in here in America, I'm not sure how they are in Asia, but you definitely need to be aware of them here. The most important thing in a relationship here is to be yourself, honesty, loyalty, communication, and the ability to resist tempation. Don't expect it to neccessarily work out forever with the first girl you meet, it make take a few tries. Well I hope this helps and take care!