If within only 6 months of dating and you two are already bored with each other then maybe you should rethink the relationship. I'm a strong believer that you are in a relationship to find the right person and if the one you are with isn't providing the comfort, compassion, communication, and everything else that goes along then its probably not the right relationship for you. Its so early for the both of you to be bored already. Whats going to happen down the road when you have exhausted all of you resources and energy in making this relationship work? I would sit down and talk to him about how you feel and see whats on his mind as well. If its not meant to be then break ties now while its still early. Good luck to you.Can someone give me advice on how to save my relationship wit mi b/f?
If you're that bored after 6 months can you imagine what it would be like after 12?! It sounds like your relationship has run its course.
But...I do believe in trying, so.... you could make a romantic meal and then have a naughty strip ready for him as desert. Or you could go for a pub lunch a have a few drinks to relax.
just meet with him, and make the things clear for dispute. if u feel he can come than ok otherwise forget him
if you have only been dating 6 months and this has happened already then i think you probably arent right for eachother anyway :(
take a break...u will both realise what uve got and things be peachy again
the key is in what you said ';we don't do things together';. That's what you need to do, share common experiences, have common interests - that is the bond of friendship and a good relationship. If you don't do this then you have nothing in common, which means long silences and then the silent death of a relationship. So you have to get both of you doing things together, cinema, meals out, activity days, going to the zoo .... anything where both of you are communicating about what you're doing together and hopefully having some fun as well.
The spark will be relighted but the key is communication, communication, communication. And you only get that by arranging to spend some time together.
Go somewhere, like a hotel that has one of those big bathtubs with the jets and lights some candles and take a bath together. Remember that scene in Pretty woman? Change your look. Get a makeover. I change my appearance all the time to keep my husband interested and he's always telling me I'm sexy. Wear feminine clothes. Do you wear makeup? Is it too much, or not enough? How's your hygiene? If you are living together is the house clean or dirty, is dinner on time? Is the trash taken out. It DOES NOT MATTER who does this, the trash that is. I hope your not one of those women who talks a man to death. Men need to have quiet, they need soothing words strategically worded, and kept to a minimum. Men like to talk about themselves. Give him a chance to do that. They need sometimes to have their head petted or neck massaged. I know my hubbie does. He is the middle son. Middle sons are like that. All these things are factors in a relationship. A relationship takes WORK. No one ever said it was a cake walk.
If the spark's already gone after just six months of dating, is it really worth saving? You're going to have to keep beating life back into the relationship again and again.
Find someone new.
O to completion.....A, Outdoor stuff, dress to impress, clubs!.....introduce a friend or two.....get a dvd and spend the night pleasuring him...come on girl use your imagination before someone does it for you!
can you remember a date or time when you both had a fantastic time? A time when ye were both really together and loved up? If so = you need to go back to that place - and hopefully it will reignite that spark foryou both.
xx
If you had six years...but six months? Time to move on. Find someone else. The spark is gone. How many times do you think you want to keep rekindling this friendship?
if its only been 6months and your already getting like this you are more likely to have problems in the relationship later on in life.
I would try anal
If you really love him than you will hold on to him. If you both are losing interest in each other than i'm not sure what you should do. But if he really loves you and you really love him spend time together and let him know how much you love him and ask him where he thinks the relationship is going. Like you said ';you don't talk, or spend time together.'; quality time is the most important thing in a relationship so try and spend some time with him and talk to him.
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