Relationship advice?

Ive been seeing this guy for the past 7 weeks, and get on extremely well, we have a laugh and just generally get on really well. He has really grown on me and i really want something to come out of it. I want more and i think he does to, he always wants to see me again after we go out and the other night i asked him should i forget about this because he was going through a rough time in his personal life i didnt want to be adding to that pressure so i asked him out straight and he just said no thats not what he wants he still wants me around but im still scared of getting hurt. Should i just let things develop or say something like where do you want this to go or should i just say nothing and let it happen. We're also taking it quite slow like we dont text everday and sometimes that makes me think he isnt interested but i suppose slow is good i do want it to last. Advice pleaseRelationship advice?
Well guys have a slower relationship vehicle...so to speak. Guys tend to take their time when really examining the affects something or someone will have on his life and future.


Its really hard to be in a new relationship.


I'd say if he says he still wants you around, give him the time and space. If you wait, He may see that you really care about him, which may be him testing you, if he has had a rough personal life. He has a wall up. He will only allow you to get so close...its a defense mechanism that most humans have. To prevent pain, or a repeat of a recent pain.





If you find that after a few months, and nothing has progressed..or gone farther the way you wish, bring it up in a non hostile way...don't seem to be too clingy, or jealous, it might push him away.





If you build a house in one day, the mortar between the bricks don't have time to set in place, and therefor doesn't create the FIRM and SOLID foundation it needs. Relationships are the same way...allow it to go smoothly...and you may just end up with not only a husband, but a best friend..which is ultimately what most people want in their spouse.Relationship advice?
be there for him through this rough patch he's going through. Don't push anything bc it will develop naturally and he will appreciate your support. that will make your relationship stronger.





try texting him more, or take him out sometime but dont take it personally if he doesn't want to bc he may be stressed over what ever hard thing is going on. being nice never hurt anyone, but being stalkerish and clingy did so just take it slow and be nice!





Good luck!
give him time ...dont try to rush anything..if ur afraid of getting hurt dont rush it ...alot of ppl just need to be around each other enough to actually go out...and if hes not interested in you then dont take it personally cause alot of guys r players and that....lol this is coming from a guy so yea
Slow is probably best. You seems a bit frazzled by the whole thing. If you really like him, step back and breathe. If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't be around. Try to appreciate the great connection you currently have instead of trying to push a label on it. Enjoy each other! Good Luck!
Everyone is scared of getting hurt in a relationship its part of the fun and excitement and at the same tim can be quiet daunting. Sounds like this guy just wants to clear his head then he will comit i think you should ask him but NOT FULL ON. just try and bring it sutterley into convo. He will either change the subject soi this tells you that it is a bad time so try again later or he will answer try it.


good luck hope all goes well
guys just need space when going through a tough time. if it does end.. he'll want u back in the long run. he knows you were the girl thatw as there for him. just be there for him and let him talk about his problems and then he'll listen to yours.


-meghan
no sounds good to me...go for it.
If he is having personal issues then you by no means need to get involved. It could turn around on you. Respect his wishes for now until everything in his life is back in place. If you really like this guy as much as you say you do you will wait on him. But if the situation gets worse and your still finding it hard to be with him. I would take a step back and start dating other people until he can get his life straight.
I think you should give him time, maybe your coming on a little too strong. Let him ask you out and if he doesn't he really isn't as intrested as you think. But give him a little space and maybe he'll come round. Hope this helped xxx
7 weeks really isn't that long, so just relax and take things at a slow comfortable pace. Enjoy the time you get and have fun.
Your right, take it easy and slow, dont put all your efforts into some young budding relationship...see where your at 7 months from now.
I know it can be hard wanting something and having to wait. It would appear that the two of you are very mature and know that no matter what you don't want to rush into anything. Take your time and enjoy each and every moment you have together. As for the texting and not getting anything, that is difficult as well but try to remember we all get busy, it's not that he didn't want to he just might not have had time to get it sent....good luck
Do nothing
take your time, I think he is also, however, with us guys, you never can tell. Just take your time.
it is better that you let him sort out his personal life first, while you can maintain contact with him, dont fall into a relationship with him. He needs some support, give him like a friend will. Dont fall into the mess yourself.....