Thursday, December 31, 2009

Just broke up from an almost one year relationship. Got no one to talk to, need some advice.?

Broke up because i'm often demanding and haven't let her be free. We've always been the best of friends and close together, and mostly happy. But whenever it came to these situations it has caused things to go downhill. And now, they've managed to get to the bottom. She wants some space, some time. I know what i have to do, i'm not really asking for advice, i just need some reassurance from somebody. She means the world to me, i know i can let her be independant because i do trust with completely, i always have, but i was new to this idea and reacted very badly. Which then caused her to grow unhappy and now that made me unhappy and there was no resolve for it. She wants time and space to experience new things. If along the way she finds she wants to be with me, she will tell me right away, i know that. I know it's in her heart somewhere i KNOW that for a fact, i guess the question is.





Do i need to wait for her to come to me? How long will it take? How should i react?





Thank you.Just broke up from an almost one year relationship. Got no one to talk to, need some advice.?
It is time for you to let her be free, to be able to grasp the freedom that she was missing when she was with you. If you two are remaining friends, then continue to talk. Ask her how things are going, if she says she is going out...be happy about it and make sure she knows that you are happy that she has the opportunity to be alive and experience life, and I should also mention that you as well need to get out there and start doing things that make you happy, and start making new friends and enjoy life and the freedom of being able to do what you want to do when you want to do it.Just broke up from an almost one year relationship. Got no one to talk to, need some advice.?
move on. by her saying she needs time to experience new things she is saying she still loves you but its not working out. If you really think she might come back, then you should prolly start a new relationship so you can get more practice in being in a relationship. but it doesnt have to be a serious relationship (and let the new girl know that) so you can go back to your girlfriend if she comes back.
I think you should start dating again and let her worry about what you are doing. Who knows, you might both meet other people or you may both realize that you want to be together. Don't sit and worry about her. Get on with you life.
Dont worry its prolly just to reassure herself. the time it takes depends on the person
you can;t make anyone do anything they don't want to do. Learning to LET GO is so hard. Good luck
why don't you start all over and court her again but this time try to be more romantic
if you love something set it free if it comes back it was yours,if not it never was.

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