I am SERIOUSLY considering ending my relationship... Please give me some advice!!!?

Here is the thing... I sort of feel like this relationship was doomed from the beginning, and my family says the same thing. There was physical violence in the beginning, then that stopped and it turned into emotional abuse... him telling me that I wasn't good enough for him, telling me that I am fat, ugly, a bitc*, cun*.... I have tried to forgive him for that because I get angry too but don't act that way. The thing is that when those verbal altercations happened there was never really a time where he said sorry after wards, or even said, ';I don't really think that way of you';. I guess I was just supposed to accept that is how he acts when he is angry and to let it go in one ear and out of the other because when he is angry, according to him, he doesn't mean what he says. Well we moved out of state 2 years ago for his job. There have been a lot of struggles, arguments, a lot of tears, and a lot of name calling. I have just gotten to the point that I don't even want to try anymore. I am not even sexually attracted to him any more. I have tried to talk things out with him but he wants no part of it, but still gets upset and questions why I am not sexually attracted to him. I have tried to explain to him that just because he is over the things that happened in the past I am not, and by masking it has made me grow cold to him. He doesn't want to help me work on the issues that I am having and thinks that I need to deal with it on my own, but I have no one here all my family is 10 hours away and I feel alone!!! That only adds to it. He still asks for sex from me even though I have explained to him how I feel and makes me feel guilty for not desiring him.... he will say things like, ';Don't you think I am cute';... and honestly no, I don't anymore. I know that a relationship is about compromise and that maybe I should have sex with him in order to get the relationship back on track, but I can't do it because my body just is not into it!!!!! In my opinion communication should come before sex, but he is trying to make me feel otherwise, like I need to give something to get something from him... Can someone please give me some advice!!!I am SERIOUSLY considering ending my relationship... Please give me some advice!!!?
I think your family is right any man who has the nerve to treat a woman that way should be dumped from the start. I think you should talk to your family...ask them if they forgive you and ask to move back in with them until you can get back on your feet. If the family thing doesn't work out try to ask a close friend or other relative if you can stay with them for a while.