Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Do you think that people take your advice when they're asking about their relationships ???

You know.....'should I stay or should I leave'? What do you think?Do you think that people take your advice when they're asking about their relationships ???
I think people should stop asking relationship advice on here because it's dumb and obviously they shouldn't even BE in a relationship if they can't deal with figuring out stuff for themselves or getting the advice from people around them in real life. But then again that's just me.Do you think that people take your advice when they're asking about their relationships ???
no way! they are just in need to be heard. that's all.:)
Only very few of them do.


Years ago, I use to listen to some friends issues about love.


I use to offer help %26amp; advices. Sometimes when the situation is painful %26amp; my friend is having real hard time with her boyfriend, I use to feel very bad %26amp; do a lot of thinking.





However, I noticed that they have all the answers.


They only need you to CONFIRM their point of view.


When you tell them exactly what you think %26amp; it doesn鈥檛 go with their needs, they run %26amp; do what ever they have in mind 鈥?regardless what you %26amp; 20 more people told them- .
No they only listen to people who say what they want to hear. That's what most people do.
no-one wants to believe it when some-one tells them its best to move on.we all ask for advice at some point in our lives but rarely take it for fear of change. if things beyond help it takes a very strong person to walk away... it also takes a very strong person to stay and try to make it work.
when you are about to take a big decision you need help, peoples's opinion that were in ur situation is a great help.
No not at all- I think people ar only looking for validation to their own feelings.
I think some actually might. For others it is just reassuring or comforting to have someone to talk to about it.
Generaly No not at all.. I think they are looking for justification for what ever it is they wanna do.. A few people might.. but many I dont think...
I believe that they take bits of information from each answer to suite the problem
I think that they are looking for opinions about how they already know that they feel. I'm sure the ones that agree with their thoughts are extremely helpful for them. Also, I bet that the answers that bring up a good point that they hadn't thought about helps, too. So yeah, I think the advice is definetly taken in.
if they ask yea i thank they take my advice becuz if ur askin becuz he treats u bad and u need a 2nd anwser then yea i do
If its good enough advice then maybe. But yet again most of the time when someone asks a question asking for help in there relationship they get many different responses. So maybe they will. I asked a question not to long ago about a strict parent. And a couple people told me to hang out with him a little more and maybe play a board game and maybe he'll be less strict. So I'm going to take their advice and do it. So ya, people may, some wont but some will.

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