Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Please i need advice men and women about porn relationships?

earlier iv asked why men like porn and i said how i don't like my man to look at it how it makes me feel (women) every girl is different if you don't care about your men looking at it then please don't answer!!!!!! the women and man answered me about Telling him how I feel I did tell him how i felt and asked why whats his reason why he likes porn and i said to him does porn give you and does more for you than what i can or do? all he said was i dunno ima guy!!!!!!!!! no reason at all i said to him everybody got a reason!!!!!! and i read some answers iv gotten earlier from guys and text him answers and had said to him the same i just typed and asked again do i just not do it for you?? and he text back was(omg drop it) not a word after :( i just feel alittle sad and down please guys girls alittle help please!!!!!Please i need advice men and women about porn relationships?
If you are texting each other about this issue - then you have more to worry about than porn. Sounds to me like you have serious communication issues to work on. Issues such as this should be talked about - the old fashioned way - face to face.Please i need advice men and women about porn relationships?
Unfortunetly you are not going to get the answer you want. I totally understand your feelings, and I think most women do (even if they don't admit) But even though I understand it, I know that it's not fair to feel jealous of a man watching porn. Men and some women just do it. It's actually not that unhealthy either. Maybe you aren't always around, or maybe he's bored or curious, it totally doesn't replace you!! Nothing replaces a real live person, who cares about you, and laughs with you and TOUCHES you... but sometimes it's fun to look at, and it's healthy for a man AND woman to masturbate and have fun by themselves.





You are going to have to get over this. That's it. You have to take responsibility for yourself and realize that you aren't going to change this, and most men are into it. Focus on enjoying him, and why you love him whenever you think about this topic, or ask to enjoy it WITH him... you might find it's a fun experience for both of you.
You have to understand that looking at porn for most guys is something that they've done for years upon years. It's just natural for us. It's not something that we can easily explain. Think of it like this - imagine that every day since you were 12, part of your daily ritual is making toast at some point in the day. You like toast - maybe it's not the most satisfying meal, but it's good, quick, and easy to make with little cleanup. Eventually, you find a mate who sometimes makes you fantastic, delicious dinners, which is fantastic. But sometimes, your mate isn't around, so what do you do? Have some toast.





You can say it's not the same because eating is a casual habit, but for guys, so is masturbation. Sorry - it's just something you have to learn to live with when in a relationship with most guys.

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