In an extremely stressful long-distance relationship and I need some advice...?

I'm 19 %26amp; he's 22, we've been together 9 months. 2 months ago, he took a job offer in his hometown. Now I'm in NC (school, working %26amp; living at home) %26amp; he's in PA (working %26amp; living with his parents). He took the job up there b/c he likes the area, likes to snowmobile, the job pays well %26amp; good benefits %26amp; he needed to get away from a city so he can figure himself %26amp; career out. I understand that but I'm having a hard time b/c I miss him %26amp; he keeps going back %26amp; fourth about whether or not I'm the 'one' for him %26amp; whether he's ready to make a decision involving someone else. He's always been independent %26amp; I'm fairly dependent. When I'm upset I act like it %26amp; lately I've been upset a lot so I call him crying or asking why he puts me on the 'back burner' to just about everything. He used to listen %26amp; reassure me %26amp; now he gets mad and suggests that we break up. He never wants to try figure things out. He's a great guy %26amp; I KNOW he has no interest in any girls. I want him to want me like he used to?!In an extremely stressful long-distance relationship and I need some advice...?
sometimes you can't go backIn an extremely stressful long-distance relationship and I need some advice...?
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Stop acting so dependent and crying all the time - this would drive me crazy if I was your boyfriend. You are both young - it sounds as if your relationship is just about over. Learn not to be so needy - you don't need another person to make you happy - you are responsible for your own happiness.
Unfortunately, that's not going to happen. I would leave and find someone who's more willing to cater to your needs or you'll find yourself constantly clinging to someone who doesn't want you.
Im in a long distance relatinship too, and it is really hard..weve been together 9 months too....but..maybe hes stressed..maybe hes busy and i understand that you want him to love you..and give you attention..but its hard..my gf is 20..im 22..we live in different states and its so hard..you always want to be with them..and you want to kiss them..you should tell him how you fell...and you have to understand this iis hard for him to and maybe he feels this way..its really hard to give advice because i relaly dont kno what you should do...but if it helps..i fight with my gf a lot..and she feels the same way you do..i get mad..i suggest we break up and its because i love her so much..the distance is hurting her..maybe you should move in with him..if you really feel this way..hope i could help.





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i think you shud take the iniative and end it with him. You need to figure out what you want from life and how best to get it and you cant do that when you are spending all your time and energy on worrying about someone else. If he really wanted to be with you he wouldnt need to think about it hed just do it and i think hes wrong for what hes doing too you and believe me he knows exactly what hes doing! But to be honest you are letting him hurt you! You have all your life in front of you dont spend your youth on someone that doesnt deserve you!