u need to take care of your child, and not focus on this man, as he is not willing to give u what u need. i would however ask for child support from him, u will be depressed for awhile, why kill yourself over him, and leave your son, fine time for him to feel guilt about the relationship. i would distance myself from him, as every time u do see him u will feel pain. it will take u a long time to forgive what he has done to u, but i would seek therapy. we have choices in our lives, if we take one road this happens, if we take another another set of circumstances happened. u made the wrong choice here to put any trust into a married man. but that is the past, u do have a choice for your future now, u have to live to raise the boy. get your child support, he is certainly responsible for that, and move on we always seem to have a future no matter how bad it looks at the time.I need advice please....He is leaving me after 10 years of relationship and back to his family....?
forgiveness is called CHILD SUPPORT !!!!! no-one is worth hurting yourself !!! your son is your rock!!! don't break your sons heart because yours is hurting at the moment!!!!!! my little saying is '; THE WORLD IS A BED OF ROSES, WATCH OUT FOR PRICKS ON THE WAY';!!!!!! he did it to his wife, youself %26amp; now he is coming back for seconds ???? very christian like??? LOSE THE LOSER!!
well i say that for your sons sake you need to get on with life and he needs to pay child support regarless of what it does to his other family it is not fair to you or your son . but you really need to let him go and find a man who loves you and your son and can give you what this other guy cant and that is a commitment.
he will give you another child and go far for a 10 years
The courts will see that he helps support his son. Tell him all Christian Fathers pay support for their children. who does he think he is, dont let him get away without helping you, he will think you are a dummy if you do. show him your stuff, good luck and i hope you find a nice guy,
I think deep in your heart you always knew this day would come. He is no good for stringing you along for 10 years, and you would've known better not to be the other woman. Don't get mixed up with a married man / woman. You are always the loosing part. You must carry on with your life and seek some-one that is worthy of you and your child. And not a married one again..
It is hard to let him go, but he was not yours in the first place. Make a better life for you and your son, you owe it to your boy...
If he is a so called Christian man then How could he walk away from a child he produced seems thats pretty much a sin, seems the christian thing maybe an easy execuse to get out of being a father, and an execuse to end the relationship so you wouldn't want to confront the wife, for you its time to go get child support and maybe if he gets life together your son can eventually be a part of his.... but for you its time for you to move on and get your life together for your son who needs you.... and if you seek a relationship in the future stay away from the married guys...
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