Been in a relationship for 1 year 1/2. But need advice?

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and he is a good man. i mean i have to force him to get a job and just make progress in his life, but now he is doing much better. Since he got a job he has become more mean toward me and always says he will help me out with money but never does. I'm expecting a baby next week and I got everything we needed for the baby without his help. the only reason he is a good man is because he never makes me feel ugly or i have i had the fear of him cheating on me. but like i said he is being mean, hasen't got anything for the baby, and i feel i need more attention in my life but i dont want to go out and cheat because i do love him. I'm just stuck. any advice or opinons.Been in a relationship for 1 year 1/2. But need advice?
Well, you're in a tough situation. You say he is a good man but he doesn't sound like it to me. Just because he doesn't make you feel ugly doesn't mean that he's a good person. He doesn't seem to be all that caring towards you or the baby you're about to have together. You're pregnant with his baby he should be treating you like a queen! He sounds irresponsible, immature and borderline abusive. Things aren't likely to change and might even get worse once the baby arrives. I think right now you should focus on yourself and your baby. If it gets worse after the baby and especially if he's mean or uncaring towards the baby I think your best bet would be to leave him. I know you love him but if he doesn't treat you and your child right what's the point of being with him? There's no way around the fact that he's not making you happy. Don't cheat, it's not worth it. But do make up your mind that if he doesn't change soon you'll find a way to make a better life for yourself and your baby. You deserve to be happy and a man that is mean, uncaring and needs to be forced to get a job doesn't sound like he's the man for you. Sorry. =(Been in a relationship for 1 year 1/2. But need advice?
Well, first of all it seems that you two are still very new to the world of relationships because a year and a half is a very short amount of time and as far as him treating you meanly....it could be because he was not prepared (I'm not giving him excuses) for the idea of a relationship and most likely, completely overwhelmed by the pregnancy.Doesn't sound to me like he was ready for any of this.
tell him how u feel
Hi, Sometimes its hard to let go when you heart is telling you different. My advice to you is to talk to him about the way he is acting tell him ,that even thou you are proud that hes getting his life together he needs to work on some things to make the relationship progress. I would l not cheat on him! Just be honest and let him know how u feel and if you see no change then its time to let go . It will hurt but in the long-run it will be for the best . Don't feel like you are stuck because of the baby ,if he's a man then he will be there regardless if not you wont need him anyways!!! Good luck with the baby