Saturday, December 19, 2009

I have a relationship problem and I need advice. Please only answer serious answers thank you.?

Me and my fiance were together for a 2 years. We are 20 years old and have alot of growing up to do, we came to alot of bumps in the road that caused us to break up. But neither one of us were ever unfaithful to the other. We have always loved each other so much. We remained broken up for 4 months and I went through a wild streak that I am not proud of. I slept with 2 ppl and they both used to be his good friends. To avoid conflict or the thought of him finding out about it I told him I didnt wanna go around them bc they seemed interested in me when we were broken up. I am ashamed of what I have done and I love my fiance so much that I would never want to tell him bc I know he would leave me. But now everytime I look at him I think I have betrayed him so bad and it hurts me. I cant stop thinking about it. I dont know what to do. I dont want our relationship to be based off a lie but when I told him that I had been with someone else not wanting to lie about it he almost didnt wanna be back with me then and we were in fact broken up and didnt think we would get back together at the time. What should I do?


Take the risk of loosing the love of my life and hurting him badly?


Or not say anything to keep him happy and just pray about it?


Please help.I have a relationship problem and I need advice. Please only answer serious answers thank you.?
If he's your fiance, and you're going to spend the rest of your life together, he's going to find out. It can be a couple of years from now when the news slips out from somebody, or it can be from a heartfelt confession from you. Which one is up to you.





If you were broken up, and you thought it was over between the two of you, then what happened then was between you and those guys. If he can't accept that (and yeah, he might be pissed), then how can he deal with the fact you've had other relationships before him?

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