Ok so I have been seeing this girl for a few months now. Things have been going pretty well I think. Were both 22 and we generally have a pretty good time together. She really is a great girlfriend (not clingy or over-needy, shes ok with not seeing me all the time so I can hang out with friends and play in my band, etc...) My problem is that part of me really likes being with her and part of me wants to see other people. Shes only my 2nd serious girlfriend (more than just a fling). Im not going to cheat...never have...never will. I kinda already have a feeling that this isnt going to last but im pretty happy for the time being. My question is should i break it off or wait it out? I really am a good guy and I don't want to hurt her, but would it be better for both of us if i just broke it off?I could use some advice from people experienced with relationships?
Just enjoy it! You're overthinking :)
Good things don't happen often, if you like her, keep it! When things aren't working, end it and you'll both have good memories. If you break up now, you may regret it as you'll never know how things may have worked out.
Hope this helps :)
MsGryffI could use some advice from people experienced with relationships?
People are always looking for the ';might be better'; significant other. If you don't have a reason to go looking why go? Sounds like you have your hands on a great girl.. it's hard to find one that's for sure. You shouldn't try to have the best of both worlds... If you let this one go, you will be trying forever to find another as good as her. You don't know what you have until it's gone... it's an old cliche, but it rings very true, especially in this case... I hope you don't break it off with her.
If you are not really into her then maybe it is time to move on. She sounds like a really nice girl. You should do what is best for you.
well if ur not ready for a serious relationship then leave her. i'm pretty sure if she knew how u feel she'd probably leave u too. nobody wants to be in her situation:)
Saturday, December 19, 2009
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