Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Does anybody have any advice for Pregnancy Hormones and Relationships?

I am 11 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend and I just recently moved in together. And lately we've been having a lot of fights, and I really feel like it's because of my hormones. We have always gotten along really well (of course some fights here and there). And he's also been talking to his ex a lot lately and that has caused a lot of insecurity on my part. Could it be because he's insecure too? I really don't want us to have to break up but I also don't want to have a lot of stress on me and the baby. We have a lot of money stress as well, this wasn't a planned pregnancy but we are just welcoming it as an unexpected blessing. My hormones have really been out of control no matter what he does I get mad, and I've been really jealous and clingy. Has anyone else been through anything similar to this? I would really appreciate any help. Thank you!Does anybody have any advice for Pregnancy Hormones and Relationships?
you know, moving in together is a huge step all on its own, having an unplanned pregnancy is also a huge stressor, when you combine those with your hormones, it isn't a pretty situation. What you need to do is sit down and talk to him, tell him you love him and you know that you guys are going through a lot of changes but you need to feel his support right now because you feel like you're body is out of control and your hormones are going crazy.


And yes, this is quite normal. I'm at the same stage in pregnancy and sometimes i just wish i could slap my husband. The littlest things set me off, he told his nephew he was gonna have a new friend soon * this was also an unplanned pregnancy* and i threatned him with a spoon. no lie. lol, so relax, i know its hard but this too shall pass.Does anybody have any advice for Pregnancy Hormones and Relationships?
It is normal. Eveything is just fine just take a deep breathe before you git mad about what ever it is. Go sit down and relax. My husband always told me things git worse before they git better.


Good luck.
I am the exact same way. My husband goes out to bars a lot for work (he is a beer salesman) and now whenever he is late, even 5 minutes I freak out and think that he is with someone else. The only advice that I have been given is to bite my tongue sometimes (which I really need to do). Our bodies are changing and that is what makes me very insecure. Hang in there... it will get better :)
look a real man would be understanding and just let you vent. not start talking to an ex girlfriend. you need to sit down and really discuss this calmly, because if he can not with stand you now he won't be able to put up with it for the next 29 weeks.





and if you are rational woman you will eventually know that when you explode on him for no reason you need to calm down and apologize.





it just takes understanding
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Lots of love, support and patience on both sides
Why is he talking to his ex? That's just fuel for disaster. He doesn't need to be. You both need to relax, though. Stress isn't good for anyone. At least a couple times a week have a date night whether it's in or out. Put on some music you like and cook a dinner together. Go to your favorite restaurant. Don't fight. If you feel one coming on, change the subject whether you want to or not. Try to have fun.

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