I have relationship troubles :'(. I need your advice?

Ok, I have a personal problem.


It is rather complicated but I need your help, please stick with me.


I am currently dating a guy, and I do not feel comfortable dating him.


It's not him; he is cute and has a nice personality..all that stuff.


The problem seems to be me.


I have had 3 past relationships, none of them lasted long


because I didn't feel right dating the guy.


So I would break up with him.


Before and after these relationships, I felt like I would like


to date him. Until he would ask me out, then I said yes,


and it didn't take long until I started to regret my decision.


I felt terrible dumping them, yet relieved.


And of course, 2 out of 3 of the guys got mad at me, and


our friendship was ruined.


But:


Here is another thing.


I ended up dating one guy, Tyler, twice.


I dumped him within a few days both times.


Because it felt weird.


He has actually forgiven me and we are friends at the moment.


Now I am sure that I like him, but I will not date him


out of fear of hurting him again.


I don't want to dump my current guy because I am sickened with myself for doing this to people. But it is making me semi-depressed, I really don't feel right.


I don't know what my problem is, or how to deal with it.


Please help me.I have relationship troubles :'(. I need your advice?
Hon, you really need to break it off with all guys and take time figuring out what you want. It dosnt seem like you are relationship material (at least not right now). And its sad that these guys keep getting hurt and all. I would just take a break from guys in general sweetie. Make a list of crucial relationship qualities that your guys must have, and always remember, you must make yourself happy before others :)I have relationship troubles :'(. I need your advice?
your like one of my friends. you like the guy then when the two of you get together you mess things up. i think you have a trust issue. your afraid of the guy hurting you first. just stop dating guys until your ready for a real relationship ok. work on yourself first because if your uncomfortable around him then this makes him uncomfortable too
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seems to me like you rush into relationships, so naturally you're going to regret it.


If you like this tyler guy but have reservations about entering into a relationship with him, then don't. Don't you think he deserves someone who is 100 percent O.K. with being in a relationship?





the common denominator is you. you need to be single in order to evaluate yourself and so when the next relationship comes along, you will be ready to give your full self.





too often girls think they need a boyfriend.


and thats the most false thing I've ever heard.