I desire a relationship but can't seem to get one. Advice?

So it's not like I'm not in contact with girls at all or anything but I never really settle down. At parties when I not fully in control I do ';hook up'; with chicks usually but when I sober up I don't know why I did.





Also I have a crush on a girl right now, hopefully it will work out, but another problem I face is that almost all the girls who have told me they are interested I just didn't feel anything for them. I tend to be highly selective (no reasoning for this) and it's not like I just look for good looks. When I do have a crush it always an infatuation though, and if she doesn't respond to me (I try no not be forward because I find that super creepy), I will get over it within a month.





All advice helps, thanks!





P.S I'm a white male, 18, smart, slightly above average looks (in some eyes :P), go to university, play sports etcI desire a relationship but can't seem to get one. Advice?
slightly above average looks (in some eyes :P)





You're ugly, go for ugly girls and leave the fitties for me!





Only joking. Well... Women come and go, stop looking for a relationship and a girl will come along soon enough.





If you meet girls and then ask yourself ';right, now is she going to make a good girlfriend?'; then you answer no or yes and either blank them or super stalk them, then it means you are a borderline sociopath and should be kept away from the public at all costs.





What you should do is try just meeting girls to have fun, you're probably a virgin so just try chatting and smiling at girls to start, don't do freaky smiles and ask them the fiscal climate, try being funny and smooth, try to shock them a bit.





I once pushed in front of 2 hot girls at a bar, they were the only two at it, they were ordering and I looked at the barman and said ';and a beer on top of that order too please'; He gave me my beer and I paid for all 3 drinks, I said to the girls ';I couldn't wait, the bar is crammed';, lol it was empty, they ate it up like their Nan's Sunday roast. Got a date from that, nothing came from it but it was fun!





Also, you are 18, that's still really young, give it time. When I was 18 I was a nervous wreck around girls but a few years on and 2 girlfriends later I got the hottest girl i ever met! WOOP! She's great!





So basically, stop being a stalker and just try to have fun. Most likely your first relationship is gonna be a disaster anyway so don't be so hasty to get in it! lol.I desire a relationship but can't seem to get one. Advice?
well, I think if you want to be in a relationship, you can always try it with the girl you like. relationship is a hard team work. you can't just give up after two weeks or after another fight. it takes a long time. really. but it worth.


the thing you told here, is really interesting, because now I understand that many guys dislike clingy girls who tell them openly about their crush.


I think you should try to make something with this girl you like. who knows, maybe your soul mates. but don't you look at the rest through your nostrils, because you can't judge book but its cover. sounds old, I know, however I'm highly selective as well. and people like us have troubles in dating. think about it, g luck! :)