Advice to convince my bf not to end relationship :(?

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 18 months (20th july would b 18 months..) he told me today he cannot be in this relationship anymore coz his heart can't take it anymore, by that he means too many petty arguements and stuff, i have tried to explain to him that it is normal in every relatonship bt he goes on to say that it happens to often and we keep on hurting each other. i love him so much but watever i say will not convince him to not leave me. i lost my virginity and he lost his, to me3months ago, that meant sooo much to me and now i feel so ****. hes done this 2 days b4 my 18th bday and a week b4 his 19th, he stll wants to b best friends but i cant see that happening because i want more out of this relationship, there is no reasoning with him and i have cried my soul out i cant take this anymore what can i say to him to make him stay..i can't let him go; because i no we're meant for each other, ive told him that we cud have a break n see how it goes but he wont.Advice to convince my bf not to end relationship :(?
It sounds like your at the end, and this is either make or break, and to be honest you can't try and keep him if he doesn't want it anymore. But i understand what its like to really love someone, so maybe he needs to be shown that if he stays its going to be for a good reason and that your relationship is going to change becus it obviously isn't enough for him at the moment. I recomend that you write him a letter because this will give you a chance to say everything you want, and the way you mean it. Don't rush it, and the msot important thing is it musn't sound pushy, it's got to be heartfelt without making him feel guilty. Perhaps begin by reminding him of all the amazing times you've had, and don't add anything that could remind him of the bad, and make him realise how much fun you've had. Then tell him how much he means to you, but don't go down the route of 'i can't live without you' or 'i thought you loved me' because your not out to hurt him, your trying to let him know how you feel. Then tell him that you know you've had rough times, and that your sorry. Let him know it will change and that you don't want petty arguments either, and although soemtimes they are natural these shouldn't occur to often because soemtimes you have to let things slide. Just make it clear you would make it worth his while, and maybe add in a nice photo or soemthing to remind him. If I were you I'd then end it by telling him you love him, you think you could be happy in the future, but it is upto him, and although you hope you won't loose him, if doesn't change his mind you won't hold a grudge, because you love him. Of course this is a letter to be written from your heart, and i can't tell you what to write, but i hoped this help. If you two have a special place maybe you should take him there to give him the letter, but that's not important. I hope this helps good luck.Advice to convince my bf not to end relationship :(?
Love, i think u hav got to face the facts, if his heart is not in it then you are in big trouble. my advise to you is have a rest with your bf, it will do you both good to cool off for a bit. then you can both see how u feel. if not put on a bask and do some dirty dancing for him,


good luck
if he dont feel the same about you, you cant force him to stay, me n my bf argued all thet time and stuff, it was annoying and he was controlling! i was done with that so i broke it off, you have to respect his decisions as well ya kno
Let some time pass. You both may either decide you are meant to be together, or realize you're better off apart. Good luck.
Leave him and move on. lifes to short.
This guy doesn't want to be with you anymore hunny. You've lost him.





I know that this feeling is really raw at the moment, and you are feeling like everything you do makes you ache.


Everything in your room reminds you of him, little words, phrases, songs, facial expressions, marks on your body.





I know that all these things are tearing you apart, but you are going to be okay in the end. I've been through that same heartache and I'm just fine now.


You need to accept that all this is happening and try to go through the process of letting this guy go.


I know it hurts like hell and it makes you feel so shitty but you have to for your own good.





Be strong, you can patch yourself up again hun.





xx
Tell him because the fact that you guys argue so much it means that you do care for eachother...argueing isnt always for the worst....good comes out of it...but again you say your guys argue about a lot of things...maybe one of you should learn to keep quiet. If you really think he is the ONE for you then that means you would do anything for him..tell him you will to show how committed you are to him and this relationship. You'll do anything to make him happy as long as it doens't come between what you and him share.





I told that to my girlfriend and it worked...but it worked because i really did mean every single word i told her.