Relationship woes, strong women i need advice?

ok i am 23 and my boyfriend is 31, we have been together for 3 years, never lived together but i stayed at his place most of the time, things started awsome then about a year ago i got pregnant and had a miscarriage and it seems since then things have been a lil rocky, we do real good for like 6months then something happens and we get into a arguement, well point is we broke up on tuesday night. he did it thought we should take a break he said. ive been a mess i wanted to work thru it. i love this man with all of my heart and just have been a mess since. we have talked a few times when i have called him but he is real busy with work this week and dosnt really have time to talk. i want to make this work. i need to know what to do to make him miss me and realize that he needs me. i know that there isnt another girl so im not worried about that.how much time and space should i give him to make him want me back. just any break up advice would help. thanksRelationship woes, strong women i need advice?
Ok this is tough, sometimes a break is needed in order to work things out you know the old saying you don't know what you got until it's gone. If he really loves you he will come back to you if you, give him sometime you shouldn't have to do things to make him miss you. I'm sure your in his thoughts. Try the opposite a lot of times guys really start missing and thinking about you when you are not around and not available tell him you love him and you respect the fact that he wants a break and just go out and try to do your own thing and if he really cares he will start wondering where your at. I know it's hard to be in love and leave someone alone it hurts but, try to surround yourself with friends and go out and enjoy your free time. I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage, that could also be a factor in his head maybe, that made him a little scared about starting a family or being in a serious relationship it's hard to say it effects everyone differently these are just some thoughts. I know it sounds cliche but, if it's meant to be it will work out.Relationship woes, strong women i need advice?
Strong women do not manipulate men into missing them and wanting them and realizing that he needs them.


A strong woman will identify her part in the problem - decide if it is something she is willing to change or not.


Take a look at his part of the problem and decide if it is something she chooses to live with or not.
Losing a baby can be very traumatic on both parents. Give him his space as he asked and hopefully you two can work it out. Do not harass him. just let him figure out what exactly he wants. the more you try to hang on to him, the more he'll pull away. after a couple of weeks, ask him what he decided and you can move on from there. hope this helps.
hmm complicated situation.


give him a good two weeks. if he wants it as much as you he should call but make sure he knows its okay. be a little flirty but not too much. invite him over to talk and tell him exactly how you feel and that its hurting you and i know that sounds corny and all but it works. tell him that you'll give anything to make it work and how much you love him.
Oh Ash.


Whichever way it turns out, you will survive.


Don't push, stay cool. Look at all your options. You're 23 and still very young and you do have options.


If he really loves you, he would find time to speak to you (anywhere and at anytime).


Funny, it's always when the weather gets nice and many things to do outdoors.


Again, if it's meant to be ....it will!
The best is to not contact him in any way, that is the only way you will get him back. Also go out with your friends to bars. This may get him jealous and also you may meet a better man. Let him chase you, he may think he can get back with you whenever he wants.
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I would give it some time.. if he wants a break then its best you give it to him instead of calling/txting all the time. It will give him time to think and miss you too. If you dont give this to him you might be making the situation worse.
Just don't show your as desperate and needy and as you feel. Make sure though you are comforting to him. Playing a little hard to get never hurt either. Just show your still loving and understanding, but don't pour your entire heart to him just yet.
girl this is a hard one,


make he relizes he wants you, ur fabulos, vdo not worry about it


talk to him striaght out


and if that dont work have a girls night and get looking awesome and strut ur stuff
don't call him, let him call you, let him figure out what he wants and hopefully he will come back
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make no contact with him at all - absence makes the heart grow fonder! and it is true!
I'm not sure I know too much about serious relationships but try these. It must seem like awhile but it was only tuesday. Give it time. I understand that it may seem like forever but be patient. Take a small vacation because not being together for a time is not only giving him time to think but you as well. You mentioned that you want him to miss you and if you love him as much as you say you do then he must feel the same. Don't bluff about finding another guy because that won't bring him closer, only push him farther away. Like I said before take a small vacation and if he's busy at work then don't talk to him for awhile but DON'T shut him off completely. When you do speak with him keep it friendly. The first time you talk just ask him how he's been, then leave him alone for about two or three days and maybe in a week see if he's up for talking things over during a weekend. Good Luck and I hope this helps you both.
This may be a hard thing to do, but don't just look at ';his'; part of the relationship. There may be something that you have been doing since the miscarriage (I sympathize with that terrible loss and grief, by the way as I've had it happyen myself) that may be affecting the relationship. I know that personally, when I miscarried, I was very sad and angry and I tended to misdirect my anger about the situation at my husband. I would start fights without meaning to, things like that. He is feeling this too, so with both of you grieving, it is natural to take things out on eachother.





I recommend seeking some couples counselling should you get back together. Maybe even make it a condition of you getting back together.
This is a hard question to answer because I want you to both understand where I am coming from and to encourage you at the same time. There is an old saying, that says when you love something let it go and when it comes back, thats how you know. The problem with that is you feel depressed after awhile because while you gave your heart to this man he is not making an attempt to come back to you. People are all different, and so I donot want to give you any time limit, however I want to encourage you to be honest with the situation, that after some time he has still not wanted to be with you again, that you accept it, because it doesnt mean you have to stop loving him, but you can start to do for you again and find someone who will love you the way you love him and you will hopefully be strong enough to love back and with this you will find a closure to this rough time in your life. I wish you the best, stay strong and do not feel discouraged, you are awesome and you will find the answer to this question in time, I promise. Best of luck to you!
Okay focus on yourself. I am sure that you care for this person but if he is saying that he needs a break maybe you are smothering him and he just isn't ready to be in a committed relationship. Maybe it is too much for him right now. If I were you I would just back off and try to stay focused on my own life and what I was doing. Are you a little co-dependent???????????


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Okay maybe sociopath is extreme but there is something wrong here and my personal opinion is that you should do your best to move on. Take Care and FOCUS ON YOU.