Relationship troubles..please give me some advice.?

Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and seven months, at first everything was good we trusted each other it was a healthy relationship.


As time progressed we came to a situation were he basically wanted to control everything, tell me who i can talk to, what i can and cant do, what i should wear.. I was open with him, i told him it bothered me but he continued to do it. We argue everyday, i feel like im taking all the weight in the relationship..We then came to a point were i found out he had seen naught pictures of one of his chick friends and didnt bother to tell me, we confessed things that we never had told each other the next day to get everything out..but till now theirs certain things that still come up, its hard for each other to have trust..i dont know what to do, i love him but its really hard, i find myself crying almost every night..i feel venerable..can someone give me some advice please..Relationship troubles..please give me some advice.?
hmm..this sounds bad..but i think..wait..i know he loves you..and doesnt do any of it on purpose..he's gonna change..i know it..i love you babe..always and forever..and dont act like were not even with the whole picture thing..**** all of you people..you guys don't know what weve been threw..obviously none of you people have had a long term relationship and don't know how hard it is to let go..yeah i didnt stop bothering her but its honestly not easy to let go of the one and only person you love..





**** all of you..


me and her always and forever%26lt;3Relationship troubles..please give me some advice.?
He's controlling, yet still likes looking at naughty pictures of other female friends .... I'd say ditch him, girl. Who needs that?
You need to move on and forget bout him hes not a good person so find someone better.
So........in simple terms, you're dating a guy who's controlling and manipulative, and not totally honest with you.





And you wonder why you're unhappy? You know what to do.....





END IT!!!





Meet him at a neutral site, (a restaurant is good, it's public), tell him you're done, (explain why to him one more time).Tell him that if he cares for you at all, he'll leave you alone, for at LEAST a year, to give you time to heal...... then LEAVE, after that, don't accept his phone calls, don't read or reply to his emails or texts, refuse to talk to him in person.





There is someone better out there, you need to be single for the two of you to connect.





Sorry, the longer you wait, the harder this will be, and the more pain involved.








Luck





He's not interested in ';fixing'; anything, he's interested in staying in control.
let me guess is he a leo....it sounds like maybe you have more love for him than he does you need to let him go NOW!! because this is just the starting of a real bad and miserable relationship that usually turns into violence.. ive been through it... if he loves you he will beg you and if he beggs you dont run to him let it hurt him for a while so that he know what he is loosing and why! if he didnt tell you about those pics imagine how many other things he didnt tell you about!! if you take my advice you will feel so much better at the end and you might not even want to go back with him !!!AND DO NOT BE THE ONE TO CALL OR BEGG HIM BECAUSE THEN HE WILL NEVER CHANGE AND WILL ALWAYS THINK THAT HE IS THE ONE WHOS RIGHT!!!! if you guys broke up before then maybe you just need to be stronger he KNOWs you will go back give it a couple months or more show him that you can date other ppl then he will be scared and really want to change...trust me....
Well I can relate to this because i have had a boyfriend who deffinatley tried to do the exact same things, and i know it's hard, but i'm sure you can find better! trust me on that. a year and 7 months is a long time. %26amp; i can't imagine how hard this must be, i think you need to take some more control of the relationship and tell him what's up and that you won't put up with that what so ever. That may be hard but he will get it through his head that you aren't messin around. I've done it before and it works.