Relationship Problems 10pts best answer need advice!?

November met this girl from a friend on the internet she lives in hawaii i live in okahoma...5,000 miles shes 13 im 17...yup...we've been ';together'; since december but Kaci came shes 17 and goes to my school and were talking to each other and she said she loves me me and her have known each other since early march....me and kaci made out yesterday and i told kenzie she till wants to be with me she doesnt care but i dont think we could ever be together...advice?





Me- http://s558.photobucket.com/albums/ss23/whitedonovan/?action=view%26amp;current=woooo.jpg





Kenzie- http://s558.photobucket.com/albums/ss23/whitedonovan/?action=view%26amp;current=kenzieblueshirt.jpg





Kaci- http://s558.photobucket.com/albums/ss23/whitedonovan/?action=view%26amp;current=kaci.jpgRelationship Problems 10pts best answer need advice!?
Um... This Kenzie girl is 4 years younger than you and lives 5000 miles away. Leave her and go for this Kaci girl.Relationship Problems 10pts best answer need advice!?
Sounds like you've already made up your mind. The girl in Hawaii doesn't deserve for you to have second thoughts about her and you deserve to be with someone you truly care about. If you made out with this Kaci person, it sounds like you want to be with her...why make you, Kaci, and Kenzie suffer?
And you are 17? Wow, it's so true that males have a mentality 5 years younger then females no offense!





The obvious answer is that this relationship with this girl in Hawaii isn't going to go anywhere. That's the truth.
First of all she's to young for you right now and just leave her alone the internet thing that is....and stick with Kaci...she right there not long distance...that long distance stuff almost never works.
wow your cute xD


wells. id say long distance dont usually work out. so just let the other girl down and be with the one u love. plus. shes 13... yea..... lol.
Firstly, don't worry about those ageist people, age is just a number and yes 13 to 17 is quite a large gap, but she may be almost 14 whereas you may of just turned 17. 3 years is not that much. If her parents knew and gave consent, its OK :)





Secondly, I know this is shallow, but Kenzie is very pretty!





Thirdly, 5,000 miles is a long way away, how often do you see eachother? Do you think that in the future it coukd work? What about when you start working, socialisng etc and dont have time for MSN or phone calls etc. If you think this would work then OK.





You have some serious grovelling to do, cheating is bad, it can tear a girl up and shred up her heart leaving her not trusting men for her whole life. I have been there. Say you are sorry, explain the pressure of the long distance got to you and that you will make a plan to give more time to eachother and then cut this Kaci girl out.





Alternatively, if you feel the same way about Kaci, the split up with Kenzie. Bear in mind she is very young and fragile, take it slow, explain she is beautiful wonderful etc, but too far away. Then assure Kaci you left Kenzie behind because you have no feelings for her and that you would never cheat, but you like Kaci so much. Otherwise Kaci is always going to be paranoid you will cheat on her/ be in love with Kenzie still. Again, speaking from experience.





Lastly, dont leave one, the run back and forth etc. Follow your heart, make a choice, stick to it.


Never get in this situation again.





Good luck x