My Relationship..what do you think?..any advice..maybe you've expirienced it before.?

me and my boyfriend have been together for over a month now iam 17 and hes 19.. Before we got together i already knew him for over a couple of months..we do love each other. he has talked to me about his previous relationships. In the last relatonship he had, he got cheated on. but has a little girl with his ex. He says that he doesnt care about his ex anymore since the first day he found out that she was cheating.which was approximately a couple of months now. He only cares about his little girl. He really regrets her being the mother of his child. And hes been having a lot of problems with his ex,..shes always trying to make him feel bad. saying that he doesnt even care about his daughter and well she just makes up a lot of stuff. But hes really responsible..he gives her money and takes care of the little girl whenever he can because he does live far and goes to college. well we have talked about everything we can, our relationship and how we plan on making it work. because were really commited and i told him that i understand that he has a little girl..and that no matter what happens iam never gonna walk away.. that will be wrong..because it will be like me taking the easy way out when i know it can get much worse with someone else. But he says that he feels ';weak and he gets scared and insecure'; sometimes..because he feels that he loves me more than i love him..and i believe that its not true... this is my first time being in love and for him too..i know our love is real but how can i help him understand ..and make him feel comfortable?..My Relationship..what do you think?..any advice..maybe you've expirienced it before.?
It appears he is really insecure which is understandable considering what he went through. The only thing is time, showing him your there and never left. Be sure to often let him know you love him and care for him, and that he is the only one for you. Help build that confidence back up.My Relationship..what do you think?..any advice..maybe you've expirienced it before.?
He probably feels this way because he has already been cheated on. He is afraid it will happen again. Now that he has a child, some woman don't want to be with men who have kids and ex wives/girlfriends because its alot of drama. So he is afraid of losing you.





All you can really do is say I love you (if you mean it) and be by his side. Support him. If he has his daughter, spend some time with him and the daughter.