Friday, April 30, 2010

Girl leaving a longer relationship for someone she barely knows .... advice?

So I barely know this girl from one of my classes and shes been talking to me telling me she thinks im really good looking. We seem to share some things in common but have never hung out.





Anyways she invited me to hang out/maybe go on a date about a week ago. Then I found out she was in a relationship and said that I wanted to but didnt think it would be a good idea since she had a boyfriend. (seems to have been a decently long relationship 1-2 years) She said I was probably right but that they had been on the outs for a while.





So about a week passes and now shes single and trying to talk to me again.





How long should I wait to make sure things are resolved before doing anything ?





Should I even bother if she is so quick to drop one guy for another?Girl leaving a longer relationship for someone she barely knows .... advice?
It won't hurt, to go out and talk to her. Just be careful before giving her your heart. Talking to people is okay, get to know her better and you might be surprised because sometime what you think you know you really don't have a clue about.


Good Luck!Girl leaving a longer relationship for someone she barely knows .... advice?
It is best for you, as a new intimate factor in her life, to stay out of such a relationship to avoid further conflict from her ex. So wait for about a month or two (maintaining friendship) or until it all cools down and then you can date her. Best of regards, and Godspeed.
Dude, relationships have their ups and downs... so this is a clear sign that this girl isn't in it for the long haul... if you start on a down, then she's going to book for the next guy she finds good looking. So, advice, if you want to have some fun, go for it whenever you feel like it, but I wouldn't get ';involved'; with her if i were you...
This personally happened to me. Some kid was up by four months and I was a dick for a year. But now I'm the man, and that kid sucked anyway, woo hoo, I am a success of a man.








Ps. Last month's issue of Maxim, COXER IS FIGURE SKATING!
chances are she is ganna tell you that he was a abusive asshole and a jerk. its not true. you give her more attention than the other guy since its something new. you flatter her more right now. she thinks things will be better with you. but she will be back with the other dude
It would really depend on the reason why she broke up with her boyfriend.





Was it a mature decision on both parties?





there's nothing wrong with having her just as a close friend for now, so you can get to know her better.
HAH! i wouldnt touch her! she sounds like a cheater! i bet by the sounds of it that her and her boyfriend break up and make up alot and all the guys inbetween are rebound.
If you think that you like her than all you can do is try and see if it works out maybe she will be diffrent with you
well she aint worth it! i bet shell do that again!http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
go for it. early bird gets the worm. she might meet someone else so why waste time. if anything, take as a hint the fact that she broke up with him shortly after she asked her out.
Last line of your question sums it up quite nicely. You know what's going to happen.
id say its not worth it ..


if she did that to him who's to say she wont do that to you..


sounds like a whore to me
that seems like the type of person who seems to always be looking for ';the next best thing';. BUT she really might have been having problems in her former reationship, so it's a really hard one to call. i think your best bet is to wait a few weeks and make sure, that SHE is sure of what she wants, and make sure she's not just telling you she's over with her ex, to try and get you to date her, just to see which one she wants. i would go to her myspace and her ex bfs too and try to see if shes telling the truth.

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