Relationship Problem. Please Give Me GOOD Advice.?

My girlfriend is a b*tch. We argue everyday, while we argue, she talks a lot of sh*t. Then when it's over with, I take her back. She thinks that she has control over me an that I'll always take her back. We just got into a BIG argument last night, an I don't know what to do now. Should I take her back? I've been with her since October 3rd, 2008, but I've known her since 1999.Relationship Problem. Please Give Me GOOD Advice.?
Umm, you obviously don't think very highly of her. Get rid of her, you don't have to put up with that.Relationship Problem. Please Give Me GOOD Advice.?
No; your not truly happy and thats very noticable you should break it off.
You're 14?? Why, in God's green earth, would you want to throw away your youth so early? Don't put yourself into the position that when you get older (And you sure as heck will!) you'll look back and miss your youth. That's a great way to grow regrets by the dozen!





Put it back into your pants, keep it there and take a long walk down the beach with a bucket and a shovel. It's a lot better and more fun to dig clams than it is to scratch crabs!





Don't plan to live your life with regrets and resentments. You're worth a lot more than that.
well i think that if u don't like her than its not worth it! She is [like u said] controlling ur life and that's not a healthy relationship!


HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT!!
This is a little difficult to answer since we don't know the nature of the arguments. They're the key thing here. If it's a trust/insecurities thing, you really need to look at your relationship in retrospect and be honest with yourself with the capacity (or lack thereof) for change. You both need to talk OPENLY about it without getting in a pissing match. That's the only way change will happen. Constantly beating around the bush and making up and forgetting about the source is only detrimental as you've witnessed.
If shes is such a ***** why would you stay with her? so what if you new her forever?!doesn'tt mean its gonna work...and obviously she is right about havingControle over you since you always take her back and never tell her how you really feel instead you go on this sight moping about her. Grow up
Don't call. Wait to see if she calls you. If she is really a b*tch, why do you want her? Give it some time. You can find someone more compatible.
obviously if you're talking **** about her over the internet, then she's totally not worth it. face it people change, so she probably isnt the same person as she was in 1999.


it's a vicious cycle; get yourself out of it.
It would probably be best NOT to take her back. Even though you have been with her and known her for a while, be completely honest with yourself and answer this question: Are you with her because you are in love with her or are you with her because you are comfortable and used to your relationship and are a bit afraid of ';change';?





My son has a girlfriend and they have been together for quiet a while,about a year or so. They do the same exact thing. They do it to each other. I can't figure out who is more at fault because they run a close race ! I can't imagine arguing like that all time and there is no way that makes anyone happy !





You should just ask yourself some questions like the one I just ask you. Remember,ask YOURSELF. You don' t have to ask or answer these to anyone but yourself so be completely honest with yourself.


Are you happy more than you are miserable when you are with her?


Do you see this pattern being broke?


Do you want to spend years putting up with this?


As I asked earlier,do you think you love her or are in love with her? If so what do you think would need to happen to change this pattern that you guys are in?





I'm guessing you are a younger person ? Life is too short to spend it being miserable. I think people get in relationships and get stuck in a rut sometimes. I think they just get used to things and except them. You do not have to do that!


You deserve to be happy and to be treated with respect and your girlfriend does as well. If you two together can't do this for yourselves and for each other then you probably need to go your seperate ways.
no get out and enjoy your life man