Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Relationship is on the line....need advice?

This girl and I are dating and she said about a month before we started dating she met this guy. They chilled for about 12-13 days and then had sex for the first time and had it a total of 4 times in 2 weeks.....then they chilled for 2 weeks after but they stopped having sex. My question is, I mean sex after knowing someone 12-13 days.... ?? We are sophomores in college and she says this is the only guy she has ever hooked up with in college........ Guys, could you see past this? Am I making a big deal out of nothing? Opinions would be great... Thanks


(Side Note--it was the first boy she had hooked up with at all in college, nothing freshman year)Relationship is on the line....need advice?
Nobody's perfect. If you really like her, then let her past remain in her past. If you really can't get over that, then let her know and leave her alone.Relationship is on the line....need advice?
I would say don't let it bother that unless she is hinting that she has feelings for this guy. Then i would be concerned. Don't hlet her see that it bothers you, but don't don't act like it never happend?
If she did that before you guys got together its part of her past, people make mistakes at least she didn't do it with him after only one night right? If you really like her, and think she is worth trusting then don't judge her for previous hook-ups. You are not making a big deal out of it, you are just concerned because you like her. Good luck!!

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