Friday, January 8, 2010

Is it really your place to give your ex advice on his or her current relationship?

No. And if asked for advice, keep out of it.Is it really your place to give your ex advice on his or her current relationship?
If they ask for it, I suppose, but otherwise no. Why would you want to anyway? You should be moving forward in your life rather than taking a step backward and getting yourself all mixed up in your ex's problems. Doesn't it bother you to see your ex with another person, let alone be his/her ';counselor'; and further submit yourself to his/her problems? More power to ya if it doesn't bother you. My personal suggestion, and you can take it or leave it, you should cut ties with him/her and move forward in your life. That person is an your ex for a reason. Don't let that person continue to haunt your life forever. Let him/her rely emotionally on someone else.Is it really your place to give your ex advice on his or her current relationship?
Nope, not unless there is reason to believe that the current relationship is a danger to your child (i.e. a drug user, alcoholic, felon, etc.) or if you have some proof that the person is doing something illegal or is already married (unknown to the ex). You are generally the last person the ex will listen to, but they generally don't want to unknowingly endanger their children either.





If your ex asks for advice, and none of the above is true, tell your ex that it is not your place and say nothing. It will only get you into trouble later.
Only if he or she asks.





Unsolicited advice is rarely acceptable.
well it depends on what kind of relationship you know have with them.





If you are ';truly'; good friends now, then I don't see any harm.
If they Confide in you, yes... If they ask for it, and you know anything about, give them your honest opinion... thats all you can do right%26gt;?

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