best thing is get involved in a bible preaching church, everybody sins and you say he din't even have sex, what did he do -talk? and you're mad about that? just forgive and let it go, show him you need more than that to shake you up. there's no sense looking for signs,
you'll go crazy, just love him less.Does anyone have any advice on how to move on after infidelity in a relationship...i am having trouble w this?
It's hard to move on, but you'll get over it, you forgive but you never forget, and that is something you need to sit and think about are you willing to go thru the relationship always second guessing or just acting like nothing happened, if your decision, it won't be easy but you're the only one that has to live with the decision.
It's going to take a lot of hard work and most importantly communication.
As far the possibility that he's doing it again, you're just going to have to sit down and talk it out...sorry to sound blunt, but keeping quiet isn't going to fix anything!
i have been married of 24 years, if you do not know him in 51 years then something is wrong, i breath and my wife knows whats in my head, talking is the best you can do, you should know that. when i am married for 51 years my wife will cough and i will know when the last time she went to the bathroom you just know the person after so many years???
Once a cheater, always a cheater! I forgave my husband too and he turned around and did it again. Now I'm single and finally happy. Cheaters don't deserve a second chance. If the man loves and respects you, he would never want to be with another woman.
After 41 years of marriage my husband cheated on me with someone as young as our children. He got her pregnant. I have been divorced for a year now and can;t give you any advise, just my prayers. I still haven't moved on.
If you are going to stay with him, then suck it up. What do you expect people to tell you and how would that effect change in how you feel?
your right you cant keep him locked up ;
and a relationship is nothing without trust ;
do you forgive him ;
do you think yall could get over what he did ;
think about it ; good luck ( =
either forgive and move on with him or sum1 else. i never get y ppl get back 2gether after something like this happens to only hold on to what happend and let ruin their attempt to be happy again.
if you have no kids.. move on..
if you have kids.. stay for the kids until you can't stay anymore
if he doesnt tell u where he is going
if he doesnt pick up his phone for hours
if he doesnt sleep with u as much as before
Either forget about it, or take some time to yourself for now.
wow... youre a strong woman .
it doesnt matter if you chose to stay - i would still make his life hell if i were you
You're just going to have to trust him unless he proves otherwise to you. You'll never forget it, but ';time'; does help %26amp; puts it further back in your mind. You choose to stay tho, so you can't accuse him or ask him about every move he makes from here on out. That eventually WILL come between you both %26amp; w/do nothing but cause arguments constantly. Just keep your eyes %26amp; ears open for signs, but you can't drive yourself crazy w/it either. You'll just have to accept things as they are %26amp; do your best to trust again. I KNOW it's hard, I've been there too. But hopefully he's learned his lesson %26amp; you won't have to worry about it in the future. I would say IF he does do it again, you ARE going to have to make up your mind if you do want to ';settle'; for this the rest of your lives or if you want to move on. Yes, it is a hard decision to make. Until you find you do have to worry, try your best to trust again...the best to you...:)
people leave people mostly when the other person is living thier life for them.like a house wife does.seem you never have anything new to talk about so they get bored with you eazyily..well i am here to say don't worry so much about leaving as living your own life,don't worry aboutwhere he/she has been or what they are doing cause the only person that is going to make you happy is you.and as you have noticed in other relationships,people that are laughing and having fun are together..people that are not are looking for someone else to make them happy.when you are the only one that can make yourself happy.so i hope you understand that no matter what he does,the reason why he done it was you were not happy.so it made him/her unhappy.so he/she looked for someone to make them happy when they can only make them sevles happy.like a full circle.like you see on the soaps..lol. make yourself happy let others make them selves happy.be around happy people.get it..i hope so.it has taken me 39 years to understand this.yeah i get unhappy everyonce in a while.i'm not perfect.but i know where to startliving for ME
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